Kink profile
Your kink profile lets other members discover your interests, limits, and what you bring to a session. You can rate kinks, list your toys, and write a longer bio about your kinky side. Everything you add appears on your public profile.
To set up your kink profile, go to Settings > Kink Profile.
Kinks
Rate kinks from a curated catalog organized into 9 categories: chastity, denial, bondage, dominance and submission, roleplay, fetish, sensation and impact, sexual acts, and intimacy.
For each kink, choose one of five ratings:
- Love: One of your favorites
- Like: You enjoy it
- Curious: Interested but haven't tried it yet
- Soft limit: Open to negotiation
- Hard limit: Off the table entirely
By default, kinks are set to Neutral, which means they won't appear on your profile.
You can browse kinks by category or search by name. Click Edit Kinks to start rating.
Directional kinks
Some kinks have two perspectives. For example, a kink may feel different when giving versus receiving, or when wearing versus keyholding. For these kinks, you can rate each direction separately:
- Wearing / Keyholding
- Giving / Receiving
- Dominant / Submissive
- Myself / Others
This lets you express preferences like "love receiving, but it's a soft limit for giving."
How kinks appear on your profile
Your profile shows up to 6 of your rated kinks as visual cards with a colored rating indicator. Visitors can click See all kinks to view the full list.
Your kinks are also searchable. Other members can filter by kinks in Member search to find people who share their interests.
Toys
Show off your collection by selecting toys you own from a predefined list across 6 categories: restraints, impact toys, sensory play, chastity devices, stimulation toys, and other.
Click Edit Toys to browse and select your toys. They appear on your profile grouped by category.
Like kinks, your toys are searchable. Other members can filter by toys in Member search.
Kink bio
Write a longer description about your kinky side, separate from the short bio that appears in your profile header. Your kink bio can be up to 5,000 characters and appears on your profile overview.
If your bio is longer than a few paragraphs, visitors see a collapsed version with a Read more button to expand it.
Your kink bio supports Markdown formatting. Use bold, italic, headings, and lists to organize your text.